Because what do you do when someone isn’t giving you much to work with? When they aren’t overly flirtatious or showing interest in a way that’s obvious? How does one flirt with a sapphic introvert without overwhelming them or walking away feeling embarrassed?

I had sex with my boarding school roommate for two years without kissing her. So when she finally asked to kiss me, I said yes. But the second our lips touched, I felt conflicted. Hesitant. Confused. Worst of all… disgusted.