I lack attention to detail at times. Does that make me a terrible lover? Debatable. For context, I met Pink Sappho’s London-based muse while on a date with someone else. Balancing attention between my date and the magnetic pull of someone who left me in awe was not easy. The guilt ate at me, but I had a job to do; Observe, and maybe, fall a little bit in love with the moment.

Pink Sappho Presents: The Muse Series with Tofunmi Some   may wonder how a Sapphic social club, based in Chicago, comes across a quiet writer tucked in the neighborhood of Ikeja, Nigeria. Well… instagram.  Tofunmi and I were not exactly on track to cross paths, until we just did.  Prior to an impromptu trip to Nigeria for a wedding, I browsed online for queer events and found nothing less than a community of sapphics hidden behind a page called Hibiscus events. When I began